You want to feel like yourself again…but you’re not so sure you even know who that is anymore.
You've gotten really good at functioning, taking care of people, getting shit done & being who everyone needs you to be.
The Iconic Circle is where you stop trying to become a better version of yourself & start coming back to the woman who's already right here.
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Somehow, you became a supporting character in your own life.
You know how to keep everything moving. You know what everybody needs from you.
You know how to be responsible, productive, agreeable, useful, strong...whatever version of you the situation calls for.
But when you ask yourself what you want?
Well….hell…
Maybe you second guess decisions you already know the answer to.
Maybe you haven't worn the thing, made the thing, said the thing, booked the trip or taken the picture because you're waiting to feel more confident first.
Maybe you keep telling yourself you'll start living differently when you're the thinner, richer, less overwhelmed, more healed version of yourself.
She's not coming, babe. 😂
And I mean that in the most liberating way possible.
You don't need another self-improvement project.
You need somewhere to practice being yourself again.
SO, I BUILT THE ROOM.
I kept waiting for a space like this to exist.
Not therapy.
Not another course.
Not a FB group where 14 women are trying to sell you essential oils.
Not a place where somebody who supposedly transcended the human condition tells you the 7 steps to becoming your Highest Self™.
I wanted a room full of smart, funny, complicated women who were willing to look at their shit, try things, change their minds, cheer for each other and figure out what actually feels like them.
Eventually I realized I could keep waiting for somebody else to build it...
or I could build it myself.
Welcome to The Iconic Circle.
THIS IS THE WORK.
Inside the Circle, we're practicing how to:
hear your own voice before asking everybody else what they think
make decisions without requiring unanimous approval from some committee 😂
build boundaries without writing a dissertation explaining them
reconnect with your creativity, body, desires and intuition
become more comfortable being seen — in pictures AND in your actual life
regulate yourself when your nervous system is screaming ABORT MISSION!
stop postponing yourself until some imaginary future version of you finally deserves the life
build actual evidence that you can trust yourself
Not perfectly.
Not overnight.
Together.
WHAT’S INSIDE?
LIVE CIRCLE GATHERINGS
Once a month, we get on Zoom and actually talk it out. Each month has a theme we explore together, with plenty of room for questions, conversation & whatever inevitably comes up. Can't make it? Replays live inside the Circle.
VOICE TRANSMISSIONS + TEACHINGS
Basically me getting a thought and grabbing my microphone. Some are 5 minutes, some are 20. We talk confidence, boundaries, self-trust, visibility, creativity, identity and whatever we're collectively working through that month.
THIS MONTH INSIDE THE CIRCLE: RETURN
We're exploring what happens when you stop looking outside yourself for the answers and start rebuilding trust with your own voice.
“There I Am” — Week One Transmission
“I Hear You” — Week Two Transmission
What Do I Already Know? — Reflection Room
Monthly collective reading
EFT tapping practice
Guided meditations
Affirmations + Feel Good Friday
and so much more…
(like a growing collection of courses, guides, picture posing ideas, etc.)
Just BE.
No performing necessary
Participate when you want to. Lurk when you need to. Answer the journal prompt publicly, write it privately, send me a message or completely ignore it because you're having a week.
COME AS YOU ARE.
No grades. No guilt. No streak to maintain.
Listen while you're driving. Watch the replay three weeks later. Journal religiously for a month & then completely forget journals exist until October.
The Circle is here to support your life, not become another obligation.
You don't have to earn your place here by participating. You already belong in the room.
HI. I'M MARY.
I've spent years working with women around confidence, self-expression, creativity & being seen — first through photography, and eventually through everything else that kept revealing itself underneath the pictures.
And here's the thing I've learned:
None of us are uniquely messed up.
Different lives.
Different bodies.
Different relationships.
Different baggage.
Same handful of stories about whether we're enough, whether we're allowed to want more, whether everybody else approves and whether we can actually trust ourselves.
I'm not interested in standing on a mountain telling you I've figured out womanhood.
I just want to ask better questions, try things that might actually help, talk about what happens and create spaces where women don't have to pretend.
The Iconic Circle is that space.
YOU MAY BE WONDERING IF THIS IS EVEN FOR YOU…
“I'm not spiritual.”
Cool. You don't have to be. I am, so card pulls, intuition & spiritual practices live here, but you are never required to believe anything I believe. Take what you need & leave the rest.
“I'm introverted / awkward / absolutely not telling strangers my business.”
Also cool. Lurk your little heart out, Boo! 😂 Participation is always an invitation, never a requirement. Our app allows you to be anonymous by making an alias (have fun with it “VelvetTiger26” sounds kind of cool)
“I don't have time for another thing.”
That's exactly why there are no completion requirements. Five minutes from a transmission might be what you need that week.
“Is this therapy?”
Nope. The Circle is personal-development and community space, not mental-health treatment, and I'll never pretend otherwise.
“What if I join and decide it's not for me?”
Cancel your membership. No weird guilt trip from me.
COME SIT WITH US.
One price gouged Door Dash dinner you.
A few fancy coffees.
A couple of heaping armfuls of things you absolutely did not need from the Dollar General.
$33/month.
And for that, you get the entire Circle: every current resource, everything already in the library, every new practice I add, our monthly live gathering, the conversations and whatever we build next.
Founding members keep the $33/month rate for as long as their membership remains active.
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